an observation of mine

most people around me are in a desperate bid to get in a relationship

in my very opinion

getting into a relationship isnt the toughest thing

what most difficult is resisting to get into one

it isnt that difficult to get into one

tempting it may be

even when we tell ourselves that our min. requirement is this and this

but at the end of the day

our heart soften when one goes out of the way

or simply, gives more attention

cause affection and acknowledgement and acceptance are what humans crave for

not just in a relationship

but also friendship or in a classroom or in our workplace

why dont we look out into the world

not just the people around us

but beyond that

the people in our society

instead of being on the receiving end

we have so much within us to offer

and when we give selflessly 

we'll actually receive much more, trust me

cause just a slight nod or a smile

can tug your heartstrings

and as i was planning my schedule for next week

i realised that most of my time are spent 

with those that i have known for a few months

its time for more meet up

lunch shopping and dinner dates

ive been neglecting them

its the things in common that make relationships enjoyable

but the little differences that makes it interesting